Saturday, November 29, 2008

How to Flirt With Men If You Are Shy

By Sheryl Ingwer

Flirting is the most obvious way to let a person know you like them.Both men and women flirt, but men seem to like women to flirt with them in a way that is a little less forward . Some people say women are known to flirt more than men are, observe for yourself and see. You may even learn a few knew techniques while doing so.

You will certainly succeed in your attempts to flirt by following a few of these tried and successful techniques.One flirting technique that works well with men is to ask for help.This boosts their confidence level and makes them feel more at ease with you, in turn they will become more conversational , which is to your advantage.And always remember use his name for a more personal touch.

When somebody says your name while talking to you it makes you feel good inside. It helps portray the message that you didn't forget their name. If you notice the person crossing their legs or rubbing his arms, try and do the same thing. This helps show the other person that your trying to flirt with them.

Another flirting technique that can be used is telling the person that you have a secret and you would like to tell them. When you get their attention lean towards them and whisper about something. It doesn't have to be a secret; it could be something silly that they did not expect you to tell them or a compliment about their dressing, shoes or even perfume. This way they will know for sure that you are interested in them and that somehow you are flirting with him.

Make sure what you whisper is something inviting but not overly sexual. If your words are crude and offensive you may undo everything you are trying to accomplish, which is to lure him in. What may happen is that he may turn and run instead. So if your tendency is to use words from the more colorful categories, you may want to skip this method and try something else.

Smiling is a great way to brighten up everybody's day, and is something we should all practice. It's even a great technique for flirting! Use your smile and you will be pleasantly surprised by people's reactions.

At the end of the day you will not only feel good about yourself but you would have also made someone's day a very happy one. When you get a chance smile to the person you are flirting with. Smile often means that you are inviting a person to come over and talk to you and if you want the person to come to where you are, smile. Give him your best smile and count the number of seconds he took to come over to your table. - 16035

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