Sunday, November 30, 2008

How to Get Through Valentine's Day after a Breakup

By Ada Denis

Had your heart broken? Wish you could hide somewhere till this mushy holiday passes? Here's how to get through Valentine's Day after a breakup.

Put on Your War Paint

Step1: Give yourself a makeover, not to console you, but because you deserve it. Guys, get a shave, facial massage (trust me, you will love it) shampoo and style, and a manicure (nothing like having a cute hairdresser or nail tech holding your hand for half an hour). Ladies, get the works: wash and style, highlights, manicure, pedicure and facial.

Step2: Stride out of the beauty shop like you own the world, head high. Smile at anybody you see. Confidence is contagious and smiles are meant to be spread.

Step3: Head for the nearest department store, preferably a midscale or upscale one. Try on a variety of looks. Experiment and don't be afraid to sport something different just for fun. Get yourself two or three entire new outfits: shirt or blouse, pants or skirt, shoes, socks or hose, belt and anything else that completes the look. (Guys, Utilikilts are sexy! Give one a try).

Step4: Put your new look together and go out on the town. You are sexy and single, live it up.

Rings on Your Fingers and Bells on Your Toes

Step1: Find a basin large enough for your feet to fit comfortably. Fill with warm water.

Step2: Add Epsom salts and scented oil. Soak feet for ten to fifteen minutes or until water begins to cool.

Step3: Dry feet thoroughly, especially between the toes. Use your exfoliating brush to scrub away any rough areas.

Step4: Give yourself a pedicure. Clip toenails and file them smooth, then give each nail a coat of clear nail polish. Guys, this includes you.

Paint the Town

Step1: Look up your old friends and arrange to go out for the evening. Brainstorm a list of places you want to stop before the night is over and try to hit them all.

Step2: Sport one of your new looks. Walk into the place like you own it, smile and have fun.

Step3: Don't worry about making connections. This is your night to relax. If it's going to happen, it will.

Step4: Put your all into having fun, whatever you are doing. Your attitude will be infectious. - 16035