Search your soul, and be totally honest with your self. Will getting back with your ex make you truly happy. Is this what you really want? If you and your ex get back together will ye be happy or will you both end up breaking up again.
It is very easy when you first break up to only remember the good times. But the truth is there were good times and bad times. Be completely objective and remember both. In reality there are very few relationships not worth saving. Were there more good times than bad times. Be honest, was most of the time you and your ex Happy or were you fighting? If they were mostly fighting then it is time to move on.
Was there any physical or mental abuse, if so this is not a healthy relationship, do not go back to someone who has no respect for you. You are worthy of so much more. If your ex was mentally unstable you are better off with out them.
IF there was no Abuse and your ex was mental competent, and you feel it was overall a healthy relationship. The tips listed should help you get your ex back.
Constantly pestering and pushing your ex is not a good idea. Stalking includes, trying to get in touch with your ex by constantly ringing, texting, e-mails and "bumping" into them. This will do more harm than good. This is a sign of desperation and Will Drive them further away.
No begging, pleading or arguing about your past relationship with your ex. When you are alone it is easy to manifest all sorts of things. The wrongs you might have done. You might be beating your self up over mistakes you might of made. The Past is The Past, it's over with, live in the present.
Start living in the present and concentrate on what you can do now, not what you should have done. Making promises that you will change and that you cannot keep will not help. This will not make you and your ex get back together.
Live your life to the full, back off from worry what your ex is doing. By giving you both some time apart you will actually be doing your self a big favor. You will become more attractive and desirable to your ex if you let them miss you. - 16035
It is very easy when you first break up to only remember the good times. But the truth is there were good times and bad times. Be completely objective and remember both. In reality there are very few relationships not worth saving. Were there more good times than bad times. Be honest, was most of the time you and your ex Happy or were you fighting? If they were mostly fighting then it is time to move on.
Was there any physical or mental abuse, if so this is not a healthy relationship, do not go back to someone who has no respect for you. You are worthy of so much more. If your ex was mentally unstable you are better off with out them.
IF there was no Abuse and your ex was mental competent, and you feel it was overall a healthy relationship. The tips listed should help you get your ex back.
Constantly pestering and pushing your ex is not a good idea. Stalking includes, trying to get in touch with your ex by constantly ringing, texting, e-mails and "bumping" into them. This will do more harm than good. This is a sign of desperation and Will Drive them further away.
No begging, pleading or arguing about your past relationship with your ex. When you are alone it is easy to manifest all sorts of things. The wrongs you might have done. You might be beating your self up over mistakes you might of made. The Past is The Past, it's over with, live in the present.
Start living in the present and concentrate on what you can do now, not what you should have done. Making promises that you will change and that you cannot keep will not help. This will not make you and your ex get back together.
Live your life to the full, back off from worry what your ex is doing. By giving you both some time apart you will actually be doing your self a big favor. You will become more attractive and desirable to your ex if you let them miss you. - 16035
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