Ok, so youve broken up and now you want your ex back. This is a common occurrence. Sometimes it takes a break up to make us realize all that we had. We actually learn and develop emotionally through break ups. The emotional pain often teaches us to behave better in the future. This is a good thing!
Now youve learned some things, figured out how to make the relationship better, if only you can get back with your ex. This is a place many people find themselves in. How can you get them back?
There are a number of methods you can use to help you get your ex back into your life and your heart. Happily, millions before you have made mistakes and gotten their ex back. And some solid strategies have been developed and tested on how to make this happen.
In the first place, the approach you use has to depend on what caused the relationship to break up. If you argued and fought all the time, that requires a different method of repair than if you ex got bored and dumped you. Each relationship issue requires a different path of repair.
One strategy that works wonders in many cases is PLAY. What this means is doing fun things with your ex even though you have broken up. This works best when some time has passed and you can talk to each other without shouting, obviously. You call them and say something along the lines of "Yes, I know we have broken up, but I wanna go skiing and want a buddy, will you join me, no strings attached?"
The key is to tell them right from the beginning that you know they've broken up with you. That way, they are less likely to be suspicious about your motivations. If they get that you understand and aren't trying to manipulate them or pressure them, they are much more likely to say yes. Then you go have fun and play together for a bit. The more you have some playtime with your ex, the more happily they will think of you. After a few dates, you may find yourself naturally getting back together.
Play can be a powerful tool for getting back with your ex. Whether its going to a museum or a ball game or to a dance club, you can probably think of some ways your ex might like to play with you some. Play is one of the best ways to bond or re-bond with your ex. There are other steps you may need to do first to get to a place where your mate will accept your invitation, but play can be a big help in getting back with your ex. - 16035
Now youve learned some things, figured out how to make the relationship better, if only you can get back with your ex. This is a place many people find themselves in. How can you get them back?
There are a number of methods you can use to help you get your ex back into your life and your heart. Happily, millions before you have made mistakes and gotten their ex back. And some solid strategies have been developed and tested on how to make this happen.
In the first place, the approach you use has to depend on what caused the relationship to break up. If you argued and fought all the time, that requires a different method of repair than if you ex got bored and dumped you. Each relationship issue requires a different path of repair.
One strategy that works wonders in many cases is PLAY. What this means is doing fun things with your ex even though you have broken up. This works best when some time has passed and you can talk to each other without shouting, obviously. You call them and say something along the lines of "Yes, I know we have broken up, but I wanna go skiing and want a buddy, will you join me, no strings attached?"
The key is to tell them right from the beginning that you know they've broken up with you. That way, they are less likely to be suspicious about your motivations. If they get that you understand and aren't trying to manipulate them or pressure them, they are much more likely to say yes. Then you go have fun and play together for a bit. The more you have some playtime with your ex, the more happily they will think of you. After a few dates, you may find yourself naturally getting back together.
Play can be a powerful tool for getting back with your ex. Whether its going to a museum or a ball game or to a dance club, you can probably think of some ways your ex might like to play with you some. Play is one of the best ways to bond or re-bond with your ex. There are other steps you may need to do first to get to a place where your mate will accept your invitation, but play can be a big help in getting back with your ex. - 16035
About the Author:
You can discover other Immediate Reconnect Strategies to get your ex back in a book about Get Your Ex Back In One Day. John Laney teaches relationship and emotional intelligence courses and you can get a free course here on Love Relationship Tips.
