It is natural for your friends to give you advice when you have broken up with someone. But is it good advice? Probably not. They only thing good was their intentions.
I know this because I've been through it myself, and I know what kind of advice they gave me. They were well-meaning but if I did it, I knew I had no shot of getting back together with my ex.
You've got to be aware of the kind of emotions that are pouring through you right now. People can see it. They know that you're upset about this. This is not how you want to be when you're trying to get your ex girlfriend back.
Think of all the same mistakes that other guys have made. They go ahead and call their ex even though they are not thinking clearly. What usually happens? They start arguing with them. ARGUING. Now, what do you think the odds are of getting back together when there is arguing involved? It's not impossible, but they sure made it harder on themselves, didn't they?
Fight the natural inclination to confront her. It will not help. Ask your buddies who have been in the same situation and called their ex's voice mail repeatedly how well that worked! You have got to think about this more logically.
If you can sit down and write your ex a letter, then there is an excellent chance of communicating exactly what you want.
OK, you've decided not to be a typical dude and flip out on your ex. You've successfully completed the first step and now you officially have a chance at getting back with her, assuming you don't screw up the rest of the steps. The second step is to tell her you want to be friends. This is critical, you absolutely need to get her to want to talk to you.
Most guys don't react well to being dumped. They go crazy on their ex. And you probably want to as well. Let me clue you in on a little secret: if you want to win her back, you better do the opposite of what most guys do. - 16035
I know this because I've been through it myself, and I know what kind of advice they gave me. They were well-meaning but if I did it, I knew I had no shot of getting back together with my ex.
You've got to be aware of the kind of emotions that are pouring through you right now. People can see it. They know that you're upset about this. This is not how you want to be when you're trying to get your ex girlfriend back.
Think of all the same mistakes that other guys have made. They go ahead and call their ex even though they are not thinking clearly. What usually happens? They start arguing with them. ARGUING. Now, what do you think the odds are of getting back together when there is arguing involved? It's not impossible, but they sure made it harder on themselves, didn't they?
Fight the natural inclination to confront her. It will not help. Ask your buddies who have been in the same situation and called their ex's voice mail repeatedly how well that worked! You have got to think about this more logically.
If you can sit down and write your ex a letter, then there is an excellent chance of communicating exactly what you want.
OK, you've decided not to be a typical dude and flip out on your ex. You've successfully completed the first step and now you officially have a chance at getting back with her, assuming you don't screw up the rest of the steps. The second step is to tell her you want to be friends. This is critical, you absolutely need to get her to want to talk to you.
Most guys don't react well to being dumped. They go crazy on their ex. And you probably want to as well. Let me clue you in on a little secret: if you want to win her back, you better do the opposite of what most guys do. - 16035
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