Friday, February 27, 2009

Significance of True Love and how to find true love

By Jacob Gatsby

Love is nothing if it is not based on the true feelings. These feelings of truth in love are all about passion and unconditional feelings with no strings attached.

It is a challenge because it involves not only giving yourself unconditionally to the other person but also it all about being flexible and amenable to the other person's desires, likes and dislikes.

The definition of true love is not hard to put down. Simply said it is the feelings of oneness and completeness with the other person. It also means that you completely trust that person with all your heart and there is nothing which you hide from the other person.

With almost everyone today living a materialistic life there are a few things that you should be aware of if you are in love. Initially it is ok to be in blind love as you need to test the waters but gradually you should start evaluating the other person. You need to make sure that you are the not the only one in the relationship who is being unconditional and the gestures are not being reciprocated.

Love is all about someone able to hear your inner feelings and thoughts. If in a relationship you are not able to do that and in fact you feel restricted and constricted then it will mean that either you are not true to the relationship or your partner. In such situations make sure that you sit and have a sincere talk with your partner.

The equality and individuality of each person should be of prime importance. Everyone wants to be respected and loved. The other person should have that respect for you and hold you in high esteem as well as reciprocate your feelings about unconditional love. This is the true essence of love and this will ultimately be the foundation of a great relationship. If these things are missing then there will be no basis for a relationship to exist. - 16035

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